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Power and Control in Relationships Power and Control in Relationships

Автор: Mary Rose

Год издания: 0000

Power is embedded in our society and makes its way into relationships through control. Hidden in everyday interactions, control is one of the major contributors to disagreements, arguments and conflicts in interpersonal relationships. <br><br>Our sense of self is the most precious thing we have. Controllers may target someone&#39;s emotional, social, financial or physical well-being, but their most effective target is a person&#39;s self- identity. That is why control is so debilitating. When our autonomy is damaged our self-worth is damaged. <br><br>But control is not simple &acirc; if someone tries to use power over another, that person will resist. Resistance in turn can become controlling. This book unravels the tangled web to show how control can take over; what is and what is not controlling behaviour; what is control and what is resistance; the effects of the power struggle; the harm it causes and how to deal with it.<br><br>While the book&#39;s focus is on romantic relationships the material applies to many types of relationship such as student/teacher, parent/child, co-workers or employee/employer. The explanations provide a framework for understanding bullying and domestic violence.<br><br>The personal strategies are helpful for many different situations in which we find we lack the skills to achieve a good outcome. By understanding how control works people can stand back and see the inner workings of their relationships and how they operate.<br><br>Chapters:<br><br>1: &quot;Five Stages of Relationships&quot; -Relationships can be divided into five stages: honeymoon; power struggle; parallel lives; synergy; end (by death or breakup). This chapter describes the transition from honeymoon to power struggle, where many relationships become stuck.<br>2: &quot;Power Struggle&quot; -There are differences in why people hurt others. Some want to get their own way and hurt others in the process. Some hurt others because they like seeing their pain.<br>3: &quot;Why People Control&quot; -People control to enact their beliefs. Thirteen different beliefs are investigated.<br>4: &quot;Macro Control&quot; -There are different levels of control. The most control one person can have over another is to define their reality.<br>5: &quot;Social Methods of Control&quot; -A common method of social control is to alienate a partner from their friends and family. Another is to diminish the partner in public. <br>6: &quot;Resistance and Counter-Control&quot; -People resist being controlled. Their resistance behaviours can become self-destructive. Sometimes they resist to the point that they become controlling in return. <br>7: &quot;Manipulative Methods of Control&quot; -Manipulative control can be the hardest to pin down what it is.<br>8: &quot;Manipulative Arguments&quot; -Sometimes we know the other person&#39;s argument is not right but we can&#39;t exactly say why. Common fallacious arguments y controllers use are presented.<br>9: &quot;Who is Resisting and Who is Controlling?&quot; -It can be very hard to tease out what is happening with control. The levels of control provide a clue. <br>10: &quot;Covert Methods of Control&quot; -These diminish a partner but are hidden in everyday behaviours.<br>11: &quot;Overt Methods of Control&quot; -Controllers who use overt methods believe they have the right to dominate the other person.<br>12: &quot;Physical Methods of Control&quot; -Include domestic violence where the controller uses any means to subdue their partner.<br>13. &quot;Effect of the Power Struggle on the Self&quot; -Power struggles deplete people. Continual diminishment can lead to depression. Continual criticism or attack leads to anxiety.<br>14. &quot;History of Control&quot; -Shows how values and beliefs are passed down the generations.<br>15 &quot;Power of the Environment&quot; -From our inherited behaviours to modern day social expectations our environment influences what we do and how we think.<br>16. &quot;Power Over Ourselves&quot; – looks at how people can rebuild themselves using a healthier paradigm. <br>17. &quot;Does it Have to be a Power Struggle?&quot; -The book concludes that the power to influence is more effective than the power to control and includes some techniques to achieve that.
Моделирование электротехнических устройств в Matlab, SimPowerSystems и Simulink Моделирование электротехнических устройств в Matlab, SimPowerSystems и Simulink

Автор: Черных И.В.

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В книге содержится описание прикладной программы Simulink и библиотеки блоков SimPowerSystems, предназначенной для моделирования электротехнических устройств и систем. Рассматривается методика создания моделей с помощью графического интерфейса программы, описаны методы расчета моделей, подробно освещена методика создания электротехнических блоков пользователя. Даны основные команды для управления моделью из ядра пакета MATLAB, рассмотрен механизм выполнения расчета модели, приводятся советы автора по применению программы. Книга включает в себя большое количество примеров, поясняющих работу блоков и методику создания модели.

PowerPoint 2010 с нуля PowerPoint 2010 с нуля

Автор: Леонов Василий

Год издания: 

Эта книга - совершенный самоучитель подготовки презентаций с помощью новейшей версии PowerPoint 2010. Прочитав ее, вы сможете без посторонней помощи создавать эффектные анимированные презентации, которые потрясут вашу аудиторию. Вы освоите приемы управления настройками программы и оптимизируете PowerPoint "под себя". Самоучитель подойдет как начинающим пользователям, так и более опытным, желающим освоить новинки версии 2010.

The increase in power through supercharging of street racing in eBook The increase in power through supercharging of street racing in eBook

Автор: Автоклуб

Год издания: 

Content

Foreword

Introduction to boost technology

Lessons from history

Turbochargers: past and present

Nitrous oxide: from the beginnings to the present day

Aspiration: theory and basic principles

What you should know about turbochargers

Turbocharger boost pressure control

The strategy to prevent the turbocharger turboyam

What you should know about turbochargers

Cooling the intake charge

Injection water and other alternative solutions

Fuels and fuel additives

Fuel

Air intake system

Injection of nitrous oxide

Exhaust system

The process of combustion and ignition system

The engine management system

Increased engine durability

Lubrication system

Cooling system

Modification of the factory engine supercharged

Testing theory in practice and a few thoughts


Tuning engines, ways to increase the engine power, in eBook Tuning engines, ways to increase the engine power, in eBook

Автор: Монолит

Год издания: 

Content

Introduction

Cylinder head

Fuel and compression

Camshaft

Valve gear link

Exhaust

Carburation

Fuel injection

Ignition system

Turbocharged and intercooler

Additional engine life

Grease

Cooling system

Testing on a chassis dynamometer

Transmission gear ratios

Suspension and brakes

Fiction or reality?


Face Control Face Control

Автор: Джон Вон Эйкен

Год издания: 

Все продавцы мечтают работать с ключевыми клиентами и заключать крупные сделки. Но, к сожалению, не многим это удается… и тому есть причины! Чтобы успешно сотрудничать с руководителями, принимающими ключевые решения, и VIP-партнерами, необходимо овладеть подходами и навыками, которые не используются в работе с другими клиентами. Иначе Вы просто не пройдете «фейс-контроль»! Почему? Потому что влиятельные люди мыслят, действуют и работают по другим правилам. Аудиокнига «Face Control. Правила назначения встреч, ведения переговоров и заключения сделок с VIP-клиентами» поможет продавцам овладеть навыками успешной работы с ключевыми клиентами и VIP-партнерами.